This is another David Deangelo product this time aiming at how to approach a woman, especially in bars/clubs.

This programme gives a very detailed understanding of how it is at the bar/club scene. As well as different guest speakers giving their opinions and experiences when they approach a woman with their helpful lines and mind frames.

If you have checked out the first beginning programmes such as:

• David Deangelo - Advanced Series
  
• David Deangelo - Mastery Series

Then you'll follow this smoothly with understanding, so check out the advanced/mastery programmes first is recommended. But, ofcourse you decide.

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Purpose of this programme is to educate you how to approach a woman in a bar or club. Deangelo's dating techniques and rules will fulfill this.

David Denagelo - Approaching Women in Bars and Clubs

• If you know what success looks like to you, you’ll be more successful then copying someone else’s success

• Recommended a 90 day commitment, go out twice a week and learn an hour a day

• Attractive women rule these places
• Almost always more men than women in clubs
• Women are often annoyed before you talk to them because of previous guys

Negative aspects of meeting women at clubs

• Their normally not girlfriend quality

Positive aspects of meeting women at clubs

• No better place to practise your skills
• If you can make it work in this place, everything else is easy

Pre-arranging your success

• Most success can be determined before or after you go out
• New clubs – Instead of going to meet girls, get used to the area by networking, talking to bar staff/doormen
• Know where you’re going, walk into a bar talking about the next bar you’re going to.  Get information about where the cool things are

Great friends to make

• Promoters because their highly networked people

Starting with happy hour at your place

• “Happy hour on Friday” – Invite some people to your place
• Have several places lined up after

Build an e-mail list and have regular social get-togethers

• Interesting people – Not necessarily your type

Networking for social success

• Information is the bar scene currency
• If you’re connected, you’re in
• Networking is the highest leverage in social activities
• Have 10 or so comebacks as default
• Know when to get an e-mail and how

Personas and bars

• A girl being mean is time management because too many guys try her
• If she is mean to you don’t worry, if you carry on talking 50% of the time she will term normal, ignore mean comments
• If a girl meanly puts you down, come back later and say “Hey what’s up?” “Oh you still got it”

Best ways to eww a girl out

• Get in her space, act nervous and lean into her
• Not getting it, the process of man and women connecting

5 ways to get an e-mail or number

• “Hey do you have a card?” – “Good, write down your e-mail”
• Tell her to write down her number as well while she is writing own the e-mail, normally will
• “Do you have e-mail?” – Look at them
• “Hey lets trade information and I’ll catch up with you later”
• “Hey you have a phone?” “Give it to me” then phone your own phone

Physical leading and the right now date

• Taking her somewhere and physically leading her is magic because it’s the vibe of taking her to your territory
• Don’t move into a girls apartment it’s their territory
• If you go to another place with a girl its shows you to are now together and you’re on a right now date

The 2 biggest mistakes men make in bars/clubs

• Guys think bad things will happen without even trying

Night out in a life of an attractive woman

• What you think is the original thing to-do more than likely isn’t original to her

Few more things you don’t want to do

• As soon as you do something the same as someone else you are disqualified

The concept of “naturally” cool

• It’s an attitude of “Do you know who I am?”

Universal traits of a cool guy

• Don’t care what people care about them, don’t mind pissing someone of now and again
• Their respect and time must be earned
• Don’t give respect to people who don’t deserve it
• “My respect should be earned”
• Open and honest, not afraid to say what they think
• Be decisive – Yes or no without caring for what people think
• “You are not cool if you don’t like my shoes”
• Always the best around
• “I am or what I am doing is the best thing going”
• “If it sucked, I wasn’t there”
• If women are second they strive to be first

Naturals set a distinctive presence

• You have to own the place
• As you walk in hold your hands out and say “MY house” imagine it’s your house and how would you feel if it was your house

How to take over house

• “Hey everyone having a goodnight?”
• Speak with a commanding presence
• Find a section of the bar and claim it as yours
• How would I stand in my territory?
• Balance your weight in your feet, chest out and with your head up
• If a woman walks by you and looks at you, don’t look away first
• Take up as much space as you possibly can

An interesting paradox

• Don’t try too hard

Fishing vs. Hunting

• Fishing is natural and hunting is for the loser
• Fish for girls don’t hunt them
• Women can tell if your just there to pick up girls
• Just go to have a good time

It’s always on

• Treat every opportunity with a girl that it is always on
• Every woman loves a challenge
• Do something different and give her a challenge

You have to create challenge from the start

• We are always comparing things to what we know

5 elements of challenge

• Hold on to our cards, don’t show too much intent.  Don’t linger around her and don’t give her full attention
• Don’t take a “I’m going to spank to this picture, picture” – Just take a photo
• Make her work; get her to ask you for your number.  Ignoring or saying no to her first invitations
• Get her to qualify herself “What makes you better than the rest of the girls here?”
• Leave her now and again, walk away, and answer the phone
• Use maybe – “Maybe I’ll see you later”
• Accuse her of checking you out, turn everything into her trying to get you into bed
• Body language – laid back.  “What you got for me?” attitude

Focus on the big picture

• Don’t spend all your focus on one girl

Here’s how to-do it

• Walk up, make them laugh, small conversation.  Then say you got to get back to your friends and then go on to some other girls
• Bump in to her and when she looks at you say to her “Watch it punk” – When she is about to call you a asshole, crack a smile and bump her back and leave
• If you see some girls sitting at a table say “Hey sorry I’m late, traffic was a killer” and sit down
• Offer out your hand to a handshake and start to thumb war her! Taunt her as you go “You suck”
• Play the name game “If I forget your name when I see you later tonight, I’ll buy you a drink.  But, if you forget mine, you’ve got to buy me a drink”

First impressions are the only impressions

• If you screw up their onto the next guy

The right type of conversation

• Make a funny topic
• Weird topic
• Sex talk
• Best conversation is a funny/flirty but not going anywhere

Keeping excitement

• Don’t be afraid to interrupt and say it’s boring

A few fallbacks to boring conversation

• Look for things in the club to talk about and then make fun “That girl is checking you out”
• Say “This is getting boring” “Tell me something interesting, a joke maybe”

Making regular conversation interesting

• If you can, speak with your eyes

Eye conversation

• You want me, knowing smile
• If you only knew
• You’re a weirdo
• You wish
• I don’t think so
• Wow
• Tell me more
• You know it
• If you answer her with a look, she has to work more

Things to remember

• Hold eye contact a ½ second longer than you should
• Too much eye contact is as bad as too little eye contact
• Try looking at her with “I’m going to eat you alive”
• Women who look down are not interested, side = yes

Owning the conversation

• Show you’re not affected by bad attitude

Syncing with resistance

• Start talking to all of them is the easiest way to get into a group

Physical conversations

• Pick her hand up like you’re going to kiss is and then kiss your own hand

Attraction amplifiers

• Use a body 1-10 test. Place a finger somewhere on her arm and ask “on a scale of 1-10 how does this feel?” and repeat moving up her arm to her inner elbow
• When hugging be very physical and when you let her go, drag your hands across her back and make sure you pull away before she does

Going for the kiss

• You don’t normally want to kiss her at the bar/club

Getting her phone number

• Goal is to get her to ask for your number
• Act reluctant, “mmm guess you could come with me, as long as you behave”

Other ways to get her phone number

• Have her call your phone
• Put your number into her phone as “Sex machine”
• Don’t say “Can I call you”

Your last chance

• Last chance at last call

Working the club

• Knowing the names of the bouncers helps
• Make me an “xxx-whatever with love” as a drink
• Treat people with respect
• Don’t be afraid to claim your spot

Starting out

• Find out what clubs and bars are in your area
• Watch the guys who are with the hot women, see what their wearing
• Go buy good cloths
• Nice to have accessories for women to comment on
• If you see a woman by the male toilets say “You girls are all the same, trying to pick up guys outside the toilets”
• Write down some common things that happen, write them down and then think of comebacks
• Have fun when you go out
• Make her trust you by being a normal person, laid back and fun
• A woman is more willing to sleep with you if she’s comfortable
• Dates, be different.  “You cook me dinner”
• Play the line game, make up pick-up lines for your friends to say

Will

• When you walk into a club, stop and let everyone check you out
• “You know what? You so in my way”
• Try get woman to buy you drinks
• Talk to a girl who rejected a guy and say “I saw you send him packing, I’ve got to know what he said”

Things men do wrong in clubs/bars

• When a girl looks at you she’s deciding if she can introduce you to her friends and family
• Get a great pair of jeans
• “We’re going to have to tell our families we met while volunteering or something”

Looking a woman directly in the eyes

• Practice in the day and when you’re getting to the club it’s easy

Groups of girls

• Be friends with all of them
• Don’t moan about money or the price for something

Be a gentleman

• Open a drink
• Letting a woman get past

Tyler (Listing at 103 minutes for 28 minutes- Good)

• If you can’t create a good vibe within your group of friends it’s harder to create a good vibe within another
• Girls are conditioned to not try with girls

You can get the videos directly from David Deangelo at www.doubleyourdating.com. Look out for more PUA Training summaries or more how to approach women information from deangelo dating soon.

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