Top fantasies hey! Don't go getting all excited, this is a clean article featuring common fantasies.  Top fantasies can be almost anything, since imagination is the decider here.  People can have random top fantasies about bananas for example, that doesn't make it not on their list of top fantasies. But this list is mine and I've put together a list of the 10 top fantasies, you'll see common fantasies galore here!

Let's face it people have common fantasies about everything! Yet, there are some things that people fantasize about more than others, want to know what they are? Of course you do! So here is the list of the top fantasies with enjoyable images -

Top Fantasies

Edit (23/07/08) - I've had to rewrite the article and remove words that would class this article as 'mature' so ads would display again, so that's why you will see a lot of 'making love' for the childish filter. :)

1. Threesomes

Let’s start off with one of the most common fantasies, the threesome fantasy! This is certainly one of the top fantasies because it’s so common. Men and women fantasize about a threesome and it is nothing to be ashamed of. Now, let’s get a little deeper into this top fantasy.

There certainly is a lot to imagine if you think about a threesome, also called ménage à trios. Maybe you've done it before, and the excitement of remembering that time really turns you on. Or maybe you hope to try it someday, and the thoughts of what you'll do fuel your fantasy. If you don't think you could handle the emotional intricacies of threesome fantasies in real life, the fantasy could still thrill you. And perhaps best of all, threesome fantasies are the only way you can fit a dozen people in your double bed.

Now that you’ve had a little taste of the top fantasies I’m sure you can’t stop yourself reading on, so read on now for even more common fantasies!

2. Making love with a Famous Person

My favourite is Angelina Jolie. I like this fantasy and it is defiantly in there with the 10 top fantasies because it is one of the most common fantasies. Only thing is you’d be lucky to get past it being one of the most common fantasies.

But, maybe someday you'll meet Jennifer Aniston or George Clooney, and you'll get to have mad, passionate love with her or him. But as I said earlier, probably not. So in the mean time, if you fantasize about Jennifer, George or Angelina then at least you can have whoever you want anytime you want in your top fantasies.

Sometimes it's the fantasy of making love with someone powerful that gets people off during these celeb fantasies. Other times, it's just the fact that we all share a common pool of good looking celebs, whose images we can easily toss into our top fantasies. Whatever it may be, making love with a famous person is certainly in the top fantasies of both men and women.

3. Making love with a Friend or Someone You Have a Crush On

Making love with a friend is one of the top fantasies, and here’s why!

I’m sure you’ve had a crush at least one time with one person.  It’s a normal thing to do and it is also one of the top fantasies to make love with that person. Let me visualise a scenario for you to think about so you can see why it is one of the top fantasies and also one of the most common fantasies.

Each morning when you walk past her desk at work, the smell of her perfume triggers the endless stream of common fantasies you’ve had for her. You don't think you should ask her out, because you work together. But it sure is great to have her in your top fantasies each night. You've know her for almost a year, and even though you say that you and her are “just friends,” and even though you're not even all that attracted to her, sometimes it's still fun to put her in your top fantasies when you masturbate. The only problem is sometime when you're together, she catches you looking at her funny, when you are remembering the position that you imagined her in the night before!

It is so common to fantasize about the people in our lives. You see them and think about them all the time anyway, so why not add them to your top fantasies?

4. Making love with a Stranger

Making love with a stranger! Have you ever used this as one of your common fantasies? Or even in your top fantasies? I can tell you that I have! Just encase you can’t quite picture a time, let me visualise you a scenario that may make you remember your old top fantasies or common fantasies where something similar appeared.

You're standing on a packed train and pressed tightly against you is a blonde stunner. You feel your bodies rocking together with the motion of the train. Then suddenly she starts to move. Oh no! You're not getting off at the same stop! Once on the other side of the closing glass doors, your beauty looks back at you with bedroom eyes, and smiles. But you're not sad that you missed meeting each other, because you know that you can find each other anytime in your top fantasies.

Whether it's the hot stranger you spotted on the train, the waiter at the restaurant when you're out with your girlfriend/wife, the shy woman who lives in the next house, a girl at a bar or simply a person you conjure up in your imagination, the common fantasies of making love with a stranger allows you to have the thrill of anonymous sex, without the risks. Only in your top fantasies can you do this, experiment a little.

5. Making love with Someone of the Same Gender

Whether you are gay, straight, or in between, fantasizing about someone of the same gender is natural and normal and it is also one of the top fantasies. It can be fun to imagine a type of love making that you may never have, or to fantasize about a sexual alternative that you already enjoy or might want to try. Either way, you can experience new ideas and new sensations when you fantasize about someone of the same gender. By the way, if you're straight, your fantasies do not make you gay. And if you are gay and you fantasize about someone of the opposite gender, that doesn't make you straight.

Getting bored with your common fantasies? Maybe one of these top fantasies such as this one can help you out.

6. Force Fantasies, Being Tied Up, and Being Spanked

This is one of my personal favourite.  I enjoy the dominant role during love making.  So I will say this is one of my top fantasies that appears regular in my common fantasies.

Would you ever want someone you barely know to rip your shirt off, grab you by the hair, throw you down on the floor and make love with you? Most people have no desire to be forced into love making, or to force someone to make love in real life; however, forced fantasies are way up on the top fantasies and common fantasies. These are common fantasies that should never be acted out. (Unless of course you have your partner's complete consent!) However, it's perfectly fine to imagine forced fantasies. If you fantasize about forcing someone to make love with you, then it could mean that you feel like you have no control in your real life, so you like to be controlling in your top fantasies. Or if you like to fantasize about relinquishing control, then maybe you are powerful in real life, and you live to give it up in your top fantasies.

Would you ever want your lover to tie your hands behind your back and then put your over his or her knee for a good spanking? People who fantasize about being tied up often crave a “guilt-free” sexual encounter. They fantasize that they can't resist the sex, because they are tied up. Those who fantasize about being spanked might be into S/M in real life. Or maybe they just like the way it feels in their top fantasies. Sometimes it makes them feel as if they are bad and need to be punished, and for them, being bad feels so good.

7. Making love While Someone Is Watching

This is one of the top fantasies because it’s one of the most common fantasies, do you fantasize about making love while someone is watching?

For some people, this can be very exciting, at least in their top fantasies. You can pretend you are a sexual performer, showing off for the observer and turning the observer on, too. You could fantasize that you are making love with a stranger and your partner is watching, or that you are making love with your partner and your neighbour is watching. In reality, you might find it embarrassing to actually have someone watch, but it could work great for one of your top fantasies!

8. Making love in Public

Making love in public is risky in real life. Yet in your top fantasies, while it carries a similar feeling of risk, you don't have to worry about being arrested for indecent exposure. Whatever thoughts turn you on, you can go for. No one can catch you in public if it's only in your mind.

Making love in public is also one of my common fantasies I’d like to try out!  I think it would be very interesting, as one of my top fantasies I added it to the list.

9. Making love in an Exotic Location

I believe this is one of the top fantasies for the main reason that people I’ve talked to about this seem to mention it as one of their common fantasies.

Your top fantasies of making love in exotic locations can take you places you've never been. Or they can transport you back to places you've already been or plan to visit. If you've made love in your garden, anytime you want you can visit your common fantasies about gallivanting in the garden, without ever having to go outside. If you plan to make love on the beach during a holiday, you can jump into your common fantasies before the plane has taken off. Maybe there's someplace where you'd never have the nerve to make love, like on a roller coaster. Your imagination can put you there, and you won't even have to wait in line for the first seat! Wherever your mind takes you, it is safe and fun to put yourself in exotic locations in your top fantasies.

10. Making love with a Former Lover

If you had the most exciting love making of your life with your ex, then why not let him or her into your common fantasies? Some people can't stand fantasizing about an ex, because after their orgasm, they get depressed about the break-up or sick by the fact that the ex was around, even in one of their top fantasies. But for others, making-love-with-the-ex-fantasies are easy to call on anytime. Its love making that you can remember and you know what it felt like. You are just calling on your past to get off in the present.

This concludes the 10 top fantasies and common fantasies list!  I hope you enjoyed reading it and look forward to reading more material on top fantasies soon, but in the meantime why not check out these related articles Female techniques, Sexual Communication and Approaching women in bars and clubs.

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Sexually Based Blog
written by Dennis Najee, June 29, 2008

Very good list. Terrific points.

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Mile High Club
written by Rohit, July 03, 2008

How about sex on an airplane or even under water?
Certainly fantasies of mine.

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written by Craig, July 03, 2008

Quite a lot of fantasies aren't included, since this is the top 10

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written by Kate, July 25, 2008

imo they aint the top fantasies, but some of them do turn me on

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written by Jack, August 05, 2008

Ablsolutely fantastic

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written by Kyle, August 27, 2008

what about having sex with someone from another part of the world?
thats one of my fantasies

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written by sophie, December 02, 2008

but what about sex for children. what if children see this and want to have sex now?. xx

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